Sincerely: I am so short and childish that women my age treat me like their own. But I am looking for love with a mature woman.
I am a 43 year old guy and only 5ft 3in tall. They say “size doesn’t matter” but that’s a lie.
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When I go to women in pubs, they patronize me, or even laugh at me. I tried dressing politely but to no avail.
The only girls interested in me seem to be around 20 – and that’s way too young. We have nothing in common.
I’m starting to get really frustrated and depressed by this. There’s nothing I can do about my height.
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Why don’t these women give me a chance?
Maybe I’m too short to find love.
DEIDRE SAYS: Not being arrogant won’t stop you from finding love. Not all women want a tall guy and many don’t.
Perhaps you’re coming across as overly interested or looking for women you find more attractive than those you have in common.
Get rid of the pub as a dating spot and open up to meeting women through activities that interest you.
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