Ask for a friend: I want to go on a date but it’s just a one-night stand in my circle of friends. What should I do?

Lately I often go out to Christmas parties with colleagues and friends. While I enjoyed it for part of the night, I’ve been feeling overwhelmed for the past few hours. People get rowdy, and there’s a lot of swapping phone numbers or kissing. I’ve been single for almost a year and would love to date again, but the thoughts of that make me a bit discouraged. My friends are a lot more confident than I am and have no problem striking up a conversation with someone in a bar and then telling us about it the next time they drink, but I’m too shy for that. . We all talk bad about it and I don’t want them to start criticizing me. I feel lonely and want to meet someone, but I feel like I’m really not in the habit of meeting and talking to strangers. The longer I’ve been single, the more I feel this way. None of my friends are in long-term relationships so there are just a lot of casual relationships or one-night stands. I feel stuck but at the same time don’t know how to change my situation for the better, especially when it comes to dating.

Dr West replied: It seems that wherever we look, there is no bad news about war, cost of living crisis, housing crisis, and combined with the impact of the pandemic, it is no wonder that many people are saying they feel exhausted and anxious. . This especially applies to face-to-face situations where we are expected to be ‘on’ and active. For those who are more comfortable communicating behind screens or at their own pace through voice notes, falling back into these real-life social interactions can be frustrating. It’s not like it’s only been a few weeks – we’ve all suffered years of stress like this. So please don’t feel like you’re the only one who feels this way. If more people are honest about it, they can admit to feeling the same way to some extent. This openness can lead to more compassion for others who are struggling.

https://www.independent.ie/style/sex-relationships/asking-for-a-friend-i-want-to-date-but-its-just-one-night-stands-in-my-circle-of-friends-what-should-i-do-42222412.html Ask for a friend: I want to go on a date but it’s just a one-night stand in my circle of friends. What should I do?

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