Noah Fitzpatrick Reimers was just two months away from graduating from Harvard University when he met Ashley Marie LaLonde, who was nearing the end of middle school there, in March 2019.
That they had never encountered each other before was strange. A month earlier, Ms. LaLonde had made history at the university when she Be one of the first womenand was the first Black woman, to star in Harvard’s Pudding Hasty Stage show, in 171 years.
At the time, Mr. Reimers, an athlete on the Harvard football team, also lived a few blocks from Ms. LaLonde, the roommate who was dating Reimers’ teammate.
When Ms. LaLonde threw a surprise birthday party for her roommate at a bar near campus, she extended the invitation to Mr. Reimers at the suggestion of her teammates. That’s where the two finally came face to face.
Mr. Reimers, 24, had been keeping an eye on Ms. LaLonde, also 24, throughout the evening. When the party was over, he took what he described as a “bold move” towards the host, asking Ms LaLonde after a brief conversation if she would date him.
A few days later, they got into a fight at a small Mexican restaurant near campus.
Mr Reimers said: “She is a very open person. Similarly, Ms. LaLonde found Mr. Reimers to be “a good listener”.
From there, Mr. Reimers said, the relationship “gets deeper emotionally very quickly”, according to Ms. LaLonde, the pair have “experienced many different seasons of life together”.
After he graduated, they transitioned from going to college together to long-distance dating while Mr. Reimers backpacked around the world. In September 2019, Mr. Reimers moved to Manhattan and at LaLonde’s suggestion, he began attending services at New York City’s Non-denominational Church, in the Hell’s Kitchen neighborhood, where she had attended. several times that summer.
The following year, after graduating, Ms. LaLonde also moved to Manhattan, where she was born and raised.
In March 2021, Mr. Reimers, originally from Virginia, told his parents that Ms. LaLonde was the person he wanted to marry. “I don’t necessarily have to get married at this young age,” he said, “but I don’t think I would or have ever been against it either.”
The following month, while the couple were visiting Ms. LaLonde’s parents at their Manhattan home, Mr. Reimers proposed to her.
Mr. Reimers has been to this point the business development and operations leader for Andluca Technologies, a New York-based climate technology startup.
Ms. LaLonde, who at Harvard was awarded the Radcliffe Doris Cohen Levi Radcliffe Doris Cohen Levi Award by the university’s Office of the Arts for excellence in musical theatre, is continuing to work as an actress.
In the fall of 2021, she performs as Alice in readings of “Alice’s Wonderland: A New Musical,” choreographed by the Amas Musical Theater at Amas Studio in Manhattan. LaLonde is currently starring in the musical “Punk Rock Girl!,” at the Argyle Theater in Babylon, NY.
But before taking on these roles, Ms. LaLonde and Mr. Reimers were engaged. Because he wanted to propose near Gramercy Park, he told her he had made a reservation for dinner nearby, at Gramercy Tavern, for May 21, 2021.
When she thought they were walking to the restaurant, he dropped to his knees outside the park, and just as Ms LaLonde said “yes”, a friend of the couple came out of a hiding place to take notes. moments on video.
They were married on February 5 at Guastavino’s in Manhattan. Ashley Anderson, a pastor of the New York City Church, attended the service in front of 220 vaccinated guests.
“She is a wonderful person as an actress,” the groom said of the bride. “On stage and off stage, she’s just an incredible presence.”
https://www.nytimes.com/2022/02/18/style/ashley-lalonde-noah-reimers-wedding.html At a surprise party, an unexpected romance