Early decisions are not binding. Let us explain.

Why the Universal App doesn’t speak that?

“We’ve looked at it as a team and agree with your point that it could be said more clearly, so we’ll be discussing internally how to make edits to cycles future applications,” Ms. Steele said in an email. (My request to speak to this over the phone was unsuccessful.)

So how best to proceed, if that early decision doesn’t go away?

I consulted Angel B. Pérez, executive director of the admissions counseling association, who previously oversaw admissions operations at Trinity College in Hartford, Conn. Together, we have come up with several points that students and parents should consider.

If you’re in a pinch right now, with an acceptance letter in hand but a troubling offer of financial aid, consider two things.

First, and foremost, you have to do what’s right for you – and just for you. But there is a right way to ask for more money (or walk away): assume a humble, not-interested questioning attitude.

If things don’t improve, follow the path. Good luck everyone, and explain to your high school counselor in detail what happened and why and how serious you are before hitting the dismiss button. Those in those roles have long-term relationships to preserve with universities, for the benefit of prospective students.

What if you are thinking about adopting early decision in the future?

First, use school ‘ net price calculator before applying, see what they estimate you will receive if you are accepted. If the actual offer is relevant and your family circumstances have not changed since applying, it is not reasonable to walk away at the expense of it. After all, you have been warned.

With these estimates in mind, interrogate the sensations that arise. Here, it’s worth considering a frustration many admissions and financial aid professionals have shared with me over the years: Families can complain about ability pay when what really matters is theirs The voluntees do like that.