EastEnders’ Melissa Suffield shares important message about ‘judging’ others

EastEnders star Melissa Suffield – who plays Lucy Beale in the soap – shared a message about setting boundaries and dealing with judgment from others.

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Melissa Suffield shares a message about ‘judging’ others
EastEnders star Melissa Suffield stripped down to her lingerie to share the important message of ‘judging’ others.
The soap star, 29, took to her Instagram page to remind her followers that ‘doing things differently’ is completely normal.
“Whether it’s the way you look, the way you’re a parent, who you love, or if it’s the first jam or cream on a cupcake, everyone has an opinion,” she captioned the post.
“And often, it seems judgmental and critical – especially when it’s being voiced without a request. But doing other things together is fine. In fact, that’s GREAT. Even if that’s not what Brenda next door would do.”
She goes on to say that a good way to handle criticism and unwanted comments is to ‘set some clear boundaries’.
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“Same with the “thank you, but what we do really works for us” either “my way makes me happy” or (if you’re feeling particularly harsh that day)” I currently Not looking for recommendations, but if I ever I will *surely* give you a buzz,'” added Melissa – who plays Lucy Beale in the soap.
“Keep doing whatever makes you happy. Take risks. Keep marching to the beat of your own drum. Keep making choices to please yourself. Because of you, not them. ”
The soap star begins the clip wearing a soft blue gown before she takes it off and begins dancing in her matching lingerie.
“When you see people rate you, pay them,” reads the words that appear on the clip.
“Do what makes you happy. This is the life you deserve and you deserve the world.”
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Melissa danced to Ultra Nate’s Free.
Fans were amazed at her inspirational post and went to the comments section to praise the TV star.
“Well with this, only you live your life so enjoy doing what you love,” commented one user.
Another posted: “Ah love it! Defo needs to calm everyone else down and do what you want and live your life.”
“I absolutely love your confidence!” one said while a follower wrote: “Love love love.”
The star is known for sharing a lot of pictures and meaningful words about body confidence on her Instagram page.
She posts lots of stunning snaps of herself in lingerie and comments on being ‘inexplicably beautiful’.
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