Erik Braverman and Jonathan Cottrell’s wedding at Dodger Stadium in Los Angeles, where Braverman served as senior vice president of the Los Angeles Dodgers, was a celebration of love. Also of progress.
Mr Cottrell said: “We know it means a lot to so many people, including the 75 vaccinated guests who watched the pair say ‘I do’ on the pitcher’s mound, but countless others have seen members of the LGBTQ Community team struggle to find acceptance in professional baseball and other sports.
Mr. Braverman, 51, and Mr. Cottrell, 31, met in November 2019 at Mantamar . Beach Club, a beachfront bar and restaurant in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico. Both are on vacation: Mr. Braverman from his work with the Dodgers and Mr. Cottrell from his job as a software engineer at Google in Mountain View, California. “We happened to be at the same swimming bar, sipping piña coladas,” Mr. Braverman said. “We were attracted to each other.”
After Mr. Braverman returned home to Los Angeles and Mr. Cottrell arrived in San Francisco, the force of gravity has not decreased. At the end of the year, Mr. Cottrell will fly to visit Mr. Braverman every weekend. Both admit they are in love. Mr Cottrell said his lack of interest in sport was not a problem.
“When I asked him what he was doing and he told me he worked for the Dodgers, I said, ‘I’m pretty sure it’s baseball, right? ‘” said Mr. Cottrell. Mr. Braverman, who got to the days when his relationship with the organization felt like the main attraction, was captivated. “I like it,” he said.
In February 2020, Mr. Cottrell, also a model, left his job at Google and bought an apartment in Mr. Braverman’s building in West Hollywood, California. At first, Mr. Braverman was reluctant about that decision, Mr. Cottrell said.
“He was like, I don’t want you to change your life just for me,” Mr Cottrell said. “But I feel like I’m moving towards myself forever.”
Epidemic, arrived in Los Angeles a month later, hastened their relationship. Mr. Cottrell then started working from home as a software engineer at Zynq, a San Francisco office management company that his brother, David Cottrell, founded. Mr. Braverman was a floor away, working for the Dodgers. They meet every day for lunch and dinner. “It allowed us to really grow our relationship,” said Mr. Braverman.
By the spring of 2020, Mr. Cottrell started thinking about marriage. That May, in the early months of the pandemic and on their sixth anniversary, he stuffed two rings into a picnic basket and gave them to Mr. Braverman on a “social distancing” picnic meeting” at Dodger Stadium (they had their own place). “He said, ‘I’m not proposing, I just feel like we’re on the right track, and when the time comes, we’ll know it,'” Mr. Braverman said.
Mr. Cottrell knew Mr. Braverman had reason to be time-sensitive. He was with the Dodgers for seven years in 2015 when his boss, Can Rosenthe team’s executive vice president and chief marketing officer, encouraged him to reach out to his colleagues.
Major League Baseball “is not known for being inclusive when I accepted my job,” Braverman said. “That’s a concern for me.” But the Dodgers franchise, he found, has come a long way in its relationship with the LGBTQ community since then. two women pushed away from the stadium for a kiss in the stands in 2000. “Everybody from possessions down is embracing and supporting me,” he said.
After Mr. Braverman officially proposed on August 13, 2021, Mr. Rosen told him that the Dodgers would be honored to have the wedding. On January 21, David Cottrell, ordained a pastor of Universal Church of Life, married the couple in a ceremony filled with what Mr. Cottrell called “a bad game of baseball.”
“For example,” said Mr. Cottrell, “I said we threw curved balls at us.”
Regarding the wedding, Mr. Braverman said, “to be able to get to the location where I thought I would have to hide my identity, and be able to actually celebrate the wedding with the man I love here” is one thing. strange. “I never imagined this day would happen,” he said.
https://www.nytimes.com/2022/01/28/style/jonathan-cottrell-erik-braverman-wedding.html For them, it’s love and baseball