A bride who feels she has no choice but to call off her wedding after her fiance secretly removed her children from the guest list, claims that he wanted an “adult-only wedding”
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A bride-to-be is boiling after finding out her future husband intentionally left their stepchild wedding guest list without asking her permission first.
The 38-year-old woman was originally supposed to marry marry for a period of three weeks, but now she feels that she cannot continue the ceremony after discovering her fiancé has not been upfront with her.
Over a week ago, the anonymous woman first read through her guest list and was surprised to find it missing three very important names: the names of her children, Madison, 18, Ethan, 15 age and Isabella. , ten.
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She confronts her fiancé, named Carlos, and he simply tells her that this is “an adults-only wedding”. This was not something she agreed to or even talked about.
Taken to Reddit, The confused bride-to-be wrote: “As you can imagine, I was very upset and asked him what in the world he was talking about. I was under the impression that my children were allowed to come, and my ex-husband and I will remain close, but understandably he didn’t come to our wedding as we all agreed, which would be awkward”.
Soon, everyone recognized the guest list, including her parents and bridesmaids. who just assumed she was the one who decided the no-child rule.
Suddenly, she realized why so many of her loved ones had “been aloof”, with her sister being “salty but unable to bring children”.
The poster – who used the username u/orange_you_glad123 – refused to accept Carlos’ excuse that he thought she knew and said she had no clue.
She said, “I asked him why he didn’t want to have kids, and he explained to me that the kids seemed so annoying, and he didn’t think they’d be comfortable at the party afterwards, where there will be a lot of drinks, even though I don’t even drink.”
This made no sense to her, as her eldest brother was already an adult who could legally drink alcohol. Furthermore, her two youngest children were only meant to come for lunch, not dinner, so it wouldn’t be a problem.
However, Carlos remains unhappy with the arrangement and complains that her children “are still immature and he wants to feel comfortable with me without ‘judgment of my children'”. .
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Her three children are understandably “sad” to learn that they weren’t invited to their mother’s wedding, especially her eldest daughter Madison, who argued “because she wasn’t even there yet. must be a child should be allowed to come”.
The poster tried to explain all this to Carlos, but he stood his ground, even saying “if it were up to him there wouldn’t be any kids in their relationship.” I”.
She continued: “I was so confused. I knew he didn’t really have a bond with the kids, but didn’t even want them to be a step across the line for me. We had an affair. There was a big argument and he said marriage was not possible. “It’s not about my children, it’s about our mutual love for each other, and if I can’t see that then I don’t think it makes sense. and should rethink my actions towards him.”
Disappointed by his response, the protective mother informs him that her children are “more important to me than ever”, swearing that “if they weren’t there, I wouldn’t be either.” .
After that, the wedding was postponed, and Carlos’s family is now not happy with her at all because they have to fly from another country to attend the ceremony.
With this in mind, the poster asked her fellow Reddit users if she made the right call, as some believed she was “selfish”. Most were completely on her side, and she felt lucky to have survived.
One person wrote: “Seriously, mate overlooked ‘If it were up to him, there would be no children in our relationship’. Yes, you will get your desired friend. There are no more children, because there are no more relationships. I’m confused how things went so far before [she] discovered this, but now that she has, it’s time to run, not walk, walk away”.
Another concurred: “Honestly, the best thing is for this to happen, imagine if he tried to keep his contempt for the kids in silence until after they got married. Bullet dodge avoid, and good puzzle”.
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