DEAR DEIDRE: My best female friend has let me down badly and now I want her out of my life forever.
I am a guy and have known my BFF for three years. We are both 17 years old.
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We approached very quickly and were inseparable. I told her everything.
But recently she was gossiping about me and I found out she was lying about a guy she kissed.
I realized that she was sly, selfish, and untrustworthy.
For me friendship is over. I hate confrontation so I fooled her, but she texted me like nothing was wrong.
DEIDRE SAYS: No one likes confrontation but ghosting is not a good way to deal with things.
She needs to know why you’re upset and both of you have to work this out in order to be able to move on.
My support package, Rows With Friends, will help you face her.
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