I feel my girlfriend is spoiled and I hate it when she talks right down to folks so I introduced it up and now she livid

A WOMAN couldn’t stand listening to her girlfriend discuss right down to folks anymore simply because they made lower than her.

In a Reddit publish, the 27-year-old lady claimed aside from being disrespectful to others, she was “nice.”

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“I’ve been with my girlfriend for 4 years now however I’ve recognized her for longer and we’re in a cheerful relationship,” she started.

“Nevertheless, she does sadly have a nasty trait of disrespecting employees and folks with decrease revenue.

“Don’t get me mistaken, she’s nice, however that’s her flaw I assume.

“To offer you a little bit background, my girlfriend grew up wealthy. Her mom has her personal profitable enterprise and her father is a decide in an especially excessive place.

“After she completed faculty, she wished to go to legislation faculty similar to her dad.

“Each her mother and father studied at Harvard and now they’ve superb contacts to many individuals in cost there.”

“When my girlfriend determined that she wished to go to Harvard too, she made her mother and father pull some strings, which contributed to her getting accepted,” she continued.

“I wish to notice, I’ve completely no downside with this. If she will get the possibility to go to the college of her desires, why wouldn’t she take it?

“Now a little bit over two years in the past, when it got here time to really discovering a job, writing functions, and going to job interviews, she was very nervous about it.

“So her dad pulled some strings once more to make the method simpler and fewer worrying for her.

“Which labored out glorious on account of his good status and excessive place.

“Now now we have each graduated and received our careers going so we moved in collectively.

“However currently, once we’re within the automobile she begins ranting on once more about how a lot it annoys her when folks complain in regards to the low pay they get.

“Because it’s ‘their fault’ that they have been ‘too lazy’ to get a greater job.

“Then I mentioned, ‘I don’t suppose you must decide different folks’s conditions as you don’t know their backstories so it’s important to needless to say not everybody was as privileged as you.’

“She gave me livid eyes and requested me what I meant. I defined that her mother and father positively contributed to her success and that not everybody was as fortunate as her.

“She started freaking out, claiming that I mentioned that she was silly and wouldn’t be anyplace in life with out her dad or mum’s assist. Although I mentioned nothing like that.

“I advised her that I might by no means consider her as silly and that it nonetheless takes a variety of work to get by means of faculty and to get a great job.

“It was simply simpler for her. However now she hasn’t spoken to me in days and her pals additionally advised me that I used to be an a**gap for ‘destroying her self conception.’

“I really feel dangerous as a result of I actually didn’t wish to harm her.”

Whereas she could also be nice in her eyes, for essentially the most half, nearly all of feedback left on the publish suggested her to rethink her relationship indefinitely.

One person wrote: “This was at all times my huge purple flag after I was relationship. Don’t ignore this.”

“Nice folks do not try this. Solely actual a**holes do,” mentioned a second.

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