YOU NEVER know how a first date will go – and for a woman, it’s an insulting experience.
Her date seems to have flirted with other women during their dinner time together and then decided to rub her face afterwards.
“My friend went on a date last night that was so brutal that I had to put it on TikTok right away – mostly because it was a funny story, but also as a warning to the women out there. Toronto that this man is walking ours. street, lady, ‘a friend of a woman’ shared on TikTok.
“I will preface this by saying that my friend is very handsome and has no insecurities.”
The TikToker went on to say that her friend met the man on Hinge and continued to talk on the phone and FaceTime with him daily before their dinner date.
However, things don’t go as planned on the date, as the woman claims that having a table of girls won’t leave the man alone – and he enjoys it.
“It got to the point where every time my friend went to the bathroom, either the guy was at the girl’s desk or one of the girls was at her desk,” she said.
“It happened many times and one of the girls said to my friend, ‘Oh you’re hot, don’t worry about this,’ which means, ‘You’re too hot, don’t worry about your guy friend. on a first date with the person talking to these girls’ desks and at their desks every time you pee. ‘”
The TikToker explained that after chatting with the girls several times, the man apologized by saying, “Sorry, those girls were just inflating my tyres.”
He also asked if his date was crazy, to which she replied, “I just think it’s weird on a first date to not just say, ‘Thanks ladies, but I’m being first date.'”
In his defense, the TikToker also said that she was confused as to what the random girls’ intentions were, calling their flirting “weird”.
“Anyway, they enter a war in miniature, they will overcome it,” continued TikToker.
Then the guy is said to have offered to take his date home – that’s when matters became even more disturbing.
The TikToker continued: “They got in the car and he said, ‘It’s funny how those girls hit me.’
“And she was like, ‘Yeah, sorry. I think it’s crazy when you talk to them. ‘”
In response, the man decided to complain that his date didn’t thank him for the dinner.
The woman is said to not believe this comment, saying she is “too busy wondering what is going on”.
Dissatisfied with her comment, the man then made another complaint, and his date decided she had enough.
She told the man to pull over, and she got out of his car at a Loblaw supermarket and waited for an Uber to pick her up.
“By the time Uber was there,” she looked like she was about to cry,’ revealed TikToker.
Her distraught attitude prompted the Uber driver to ask her if she was okay and seemingly act as her therapist all the way home.
On the bright side, after hearing about her insulting date, the Uber driver led the sulky woman to her doorstep and said the ride was his.
TikToker concludes: “A: Never use paying for dinner against someone on a date.
“Just don’t date after that if you don’t like the custom.
“B. If you need the girls at the next table to fill you up with gas while you’re dating a hot girl to feel like a hot guy, I can’t help you; it was just insecurity.”
The video has received more than 5 million views and is flooded with sympathetic comments, unfortunately similar stories.
“At least this guy was polite enough to show his narcissism on the first date.
One user commented: “My ex used to piss me off, but didn’t start doing it until three months later.
“The boys will be like ‘GiRLs hAvE sO mUcH drAMa,’ and then come back and become the movie,” one annoyed viewer wrote with a wide-eyed emoji.
“He’s full [red flags],” added another.
It seems the woman on the date quickly spotted what she believes is a red flag, but for those who might want to prepare for a potentially disastrous day, here’s seven red signs that one expert says we should all watch out for.
Furthermore, a relationship coach revealed the most important thing is that she works with clients to boost their confidence – meaning they don’t need outside assurances to feel good about their own skin.
https://www.thesun.ie/fabulous/8244567/the-most-insulting-first-date-he-flirted-with-girls/ I had the most insulting first date – he flirted with girls in front of me and said he couldn’t help it, but it just got worse