I had to be crushed before having sex

CUSTOMER service agent Bea Jenson, 25, lives with her longtime boyfriend in Aberdeen.

She said: “I used to be so nervous before having sex with a new partner, I had to fall in love first.

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“It became a bad habit that I couldn’t break, even when I started having sex with my boyfriend.

“I decided I needed a change after a few drunken nights in the bedroom.

“Once I fell out of bed during sex and actually injured my arm.

“Another time, on a romantic weekend, I was trying to look glamorous in a hotel room and put on new underwear when I tripped and hit my head.

“It was a wake-up call for me to figure out why I was using alcohol as a crutch to have sex.

“It all made me insecure and nervous, so I tried to build confidence when I stepped out of the bedroom.

“It works and for the past few months I have had the best sex of my life sober.

“I’ll never go back. I’ve had many longer and more intense orgasms and the best part is that I can remember it in the morning.”

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