VICKY Pattison has revealed that she “didn’t hesitate to ask her boyfriend Ercan Ramadan to marry her” when the time was right.
The 34-year-old TV star says it’s not men’s business to propose and encourage women to take the lead – admitting that it’s “confusing” for women to be scrutinized when they ask questions.
However, the Newcastle beauty admitted that there was an attempt, admitting that she would only propose if her lover bought her a beautiful engagement ring.
Speaking exclusively to The Sun, Vicky said: “I’m sure I read that Joshua Jackson’s bird asked him and I loved it.
“Obviously she’s got a little bit of a stick in it but that’s bull****.”
The TV buff says women should feel empowered to make their own decisions when proposing marriage proposals and that it shouldn’t just depend on the man.
“I’m all for it, it’s 2022 – I think women can do whatever they set their mind to. We can be a bad CEO, we can be mothers, we can be teachers, we can be doctors, we can raise children, we can make lives, we can do whatever we want. .
“If you want to ask someone to marry you, do it.”
However, the former Geordie Shore star says she has a small problem about proposing.
She joked: “But what about the engagement ring? Since I really want a nice engagement ring, do you have to buy yourself one and wear it?
“I think I need to know how it works because that would be something I miss.
“I have no qualms asking Ercan to marry me but as long as I still have a beautiful ring.”
Vicky reveals that she’s at the stage where she’s ready to commit to Ercan – but explains that marriage won’t define her happiness.
“I really think I’m getting to that stage where I’m ready to make that commitment with someone – not just anyone..Ercan,” she said.
“But I spent too many years rushing though life – wanting my next job, next home, next stage of my relationship.
“Perhaps it was to distract myself because I was probably a bit unhappy, maybe hanging out with the wrong person or having no control over my career, or fighting with the wrong person.
“So I thought my next achievement would make me happy and of course that never happened – happiness comes from being content with who you are.
“I am finally at that stage, I have a great relationship with my family, I absolutely love my job, I am surrounded by lovely people, I get to work with great brands. great brand, I have a lovely boyfriend. loves me unconditionally, so maybe marriage would be great, but it’s not the be-all or end-all.
“I don’t send pictures of engagement rings or anything like that, I’m just really content. Yes, marriage will be fine, but it won’t affect my happiness. “
THE HAPPY DAYS
Vicky and Ercan have gone from strength to strength over the past three years.
She said: “I think you all want to be loved and it’s a basic human desire, it’s lovely to feel supported and loved and to share lovely things with them like the good old days. vacation, taking care of Milo and a house together.
“It’s not wild sex, it’s not super expensive vacations, it’s not any of that. That’s being on the sofa with someone you love, that’s where I’m at. ”
Earlier this year, the couple moved out of their luxury apartment into a beautiful new home, worth 1.5 million pounds.
The home has five bedrooms, three bathrooms and three large living rooms as well as a stylish kitchen.
Whispering about her move on Instagram, Vicky shared a photo of herself smiling happily on the doorstep and one of her arms outstretched.
She captioned the happy images: “Capture the right moment for me today as I come to see our new home and take a little walk with our designer! It’s beautiful as it is! I miss and I am very happy to have decorated it and made it our dream home.
“I’ve been debating posting this because the last thing I want to do is come across as smug or bloody bragging – especially in a year that has caused so much trouble for so many people.
“But I’ve always been very honest on Instagram, showing the good and the bad – and it’s important that we celebrate our wins and let us own the losses. So here we go. is important.”
The couple also recently added a new member to their family, in the form of the adorable Labrador Milo.
First Vicky and Ercan moved in together last August, nine months after breaking up with ex-fiance John Noble.
Vicky ended it all with businessman John after he was caught close to a mysterious woman in Dubai.
She kicked him out of the house they bought together and annul the engagement – a few months before they got married.
Soon after, she found love again with her ex Star Towie Ercan – whom she met in February 2019 and has been loved ever since.
Vicky, who has partnered with Hartley’s Jelly, set realistic fitness goals this month and urged people to be a little more kind to themselves.
“Be realistic with yourself and be kind to yourself. I don’t think setting an unrealistic goal is healthy for anyone because you will always be disappointed.
“I grew up with 10 pitchers of Hartley’s Cal Jelly in my cupboard at home, my mom always loved them and I always have them.
“We’re all having a tough January, it’s dark and miserable. A few 10 Cal Jelly is the perfect way to get through and stay on track whatever your goal, whatever it may be, sex or just trying to get a little bit of appetite, it’s perfect for that.”
Vicky Pattison continues her partnership with Hartley’s 10 Cal Jelly and is saying yes to pudding this January. With only 10 calories, it’s the perfect pudding.
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