SAY what you would do about Strawzillas – but we can total Understand the pressure to throw the perfect wedding photos.
So as the organizer of the whole thing, your loved ones will probably give you a free ticket to a swoon (or two) before your flower arrangements or outfits. groomsmen.
But kicking someone out of your wedding party just because they’re pregnant? Well, that’s where most people draw the line – as one woman recently discovered.
Posted on Reddit’s Am I The A ****** Forum, the unnamed bride explained how she asked her best friend of 17 years to be her bridesmaid about six months ago.
Now that the wedding was only a few weeks away, the bride decided to invite all of her closest girlfriends to her place to finalize the wedding plans – that’s when she found out her friend was 6 months pregnant. .
She wrote: “She didn’t make an announcement during the gathering or look pregnant as she wore a baggy sweater with jeans. It’s just that she ate a lot and one of the my bridesmaid teased her if she had a bun in the oven.’ and she just laughed it off.
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“Later, during the gathering, this very bridesmaid teased her and said ‘how good your food looks’ while rubbing my best friend’s belly and only to realize that it was is a real baby bump.”
Naturally, the group was super excited for the woman and congratulated her on the news – but things didn’t go well for the bride.
She continued: “I feel a bit insecure about how she’s going to rob my oracle at the wedding since almost 95% of my guests know her.
“She then thanked everyone and told them that this gathering was not about her but about me, and it will be the same for the wedding ceremony.”
Sounds like a pretty great response, doesn’t it? Well, that still doesn’t put the bride’s mind at ease.
The woman then called her best friend to ask why she kept it a secret and said that she would definitely “steal her thunderbolt” one day.
The bride explained: “She told me that she was only going to tell about her most of the pregnancy and that at the moment only she and her husband’s family knows and those present at the wedding.
“She told me her dress wasn’t tight and there would be a veil on the front of the dress and it wouldn’t show the bump and I didn’t have to worry because all the focus would be on me. because I’m the bride.”
I told her I didn’t want her at the wedding because she would be stealing the show and would definitely look very pregnant walking down the aisle and might not be able to perform her bridesmaid duties.
Since the mother-to-be is having a softer wedding, the bride says she just “can’t understand” the pressure she’s under – and that’s when she kicked her out of the bridal party.
She continued: “I told her I didn’t want her to go to the wedding because she would be stealing the show and would definitely look very pregnant walking down the aisle and might not be able to perform her duties. my bridesmaid’s service.”
Trying to wrap up her wishes, the woman said she would attend as a substitute guest – but the bride has now said she absolutely doesn’t want her there.
Needless to say, this also did not go well with the other bridesmaids, who have also now dropped their roles.
Accusing the former bridesmaid of “stirring up” about her, the woman asked: “Now, most of my bridesmaids won’t be at my wedding and they call it a mean egoist. because I don’t want her to steal my thunder. Am I really a ******?”
Needless to say, the post sparked fierce debate among forum members.
One bewildered: “How did she not plan her pregnancy around her friends wedding???”
Another added: “Has ever, in history, been a pregnant bridesmaid stealing a show?”
“The bride is literally the worst,” added another. “Their day is more important than anything else in anyone’s life.”
For more on the wedding story, this bride was trolled for buying her wedding dress online and expecting it to be perfect – people were ‘really stunned’.
And this The woman’s fiance cheated so she sold the heirloom engagement ring he gave her. – now he says SHE is the wrong one.
Add this The woman longed to get engaged before the age of 30 so she bought her own ring and get her man to propose on vacation.
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