A mother has been supported online after confessing that although she loves her daughter “very painfully”, she truly hates motherhood and all the responsibilities associated with it.
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However, one mother confessed exactly that, after revealing that she loved her daughter, but at the same time, she resented the pain she had caused to her body and for the loss of her freedom. hers.
Taken to RedditThe mother admits that she loves her daughter “so painfully,” but she absolutely hates all the hardships and responsibilities that come with motherhood.
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“I hate everything about parenting; the constant demands, no breaks, no breaks, 24/7 unpaid labor plus eight/9 hours of paid labor,” she wrote. on the forum.
“There’s no freedom, just responsibility and worrying about everything. Not to mention the financial shortfall that comes with it.”
While you could be forgiven for assuming that the woman pregnancy Incidentally, she went on to confirm that she had planned to have a baby, but she felt pressured into deciding to have a baby.
“I let society and those around me convince me that I needed to have a child out of service and here I am with a lifetime commitment,” she added.
“I really loved my life before and now my body, my mental health, my sleep and my youth are slowly slipping away and replaced by constant crying, anxiety and worry. quiet.”
However, while the topic is not often talked about publicly, the mother has been met with a resounding response from other parents who were able to relate to her feelings and reassure her that she not alone.
“I’m here to tell you, you’re not alone. I battled with this feeling every day until I gave in and admitted that yes, being a parent most of the time is terrible,” said one woman. Another parent commented.
“Wait a minute, and reach out to a friend, a counselor, or whatever support system you have.”
Another added: “I feel EXACTLY that. My kids are so loved by me but I always feel like I made a mistake by having them. One day they will be their own and I will. there’s no need to be enslaved to their needs and wants and desires.
“But until then, there are times when I’m almost ready to get in the car and drive away or scream until my throat is hoarse because I’m so frustrated.”
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