DEAR DEIDRE: I’m hanging out, having sex, and having a crush on my ex, even though she broke up with me. I still care deeply for her.
I’m 25 years old and my ex is 23. We’ve been together for two years.
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After breaking up, we decided and agreed that we weren’t meant for each other. We stayed like that until she went on a two-week vacation.
Neither of us saw anyone else while she was away, but her needs and wants seemed to change completely when she returned.
We don’t have much sex anymore, that’s not a big deal, but we both still care and like each other a lot.
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I’m interested in seeing other people completely to try to move on. We are best friends and if I could be with her, I would.
She was adamant that she didn’t want a relationship even though we were still very close.
DEIDRE SAYS: She may have mixed feelings about your relationship coming to an end, which is why she’s still in touch with you.
But it’s time to think about yourself. Staying in touch will prevent you from getting over her. Tell her you’re working hard to move on.
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