An aspiring mother is “heartbroken” after reviewing her finances and realizing that she and her partner may not be able to afford children – despite “desperate” wanting to start a family. family.
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An aspiration mom says she is heartbroken at the idea of not being able to have children.
The unnamed woman told how she had been “desperate” to have a baby for three years but put off trying Baby by living with parents.
Write more articles MumsnetThe 28-year-old said she is currently living with her partner and both are ready to become parents.
However, after calculating their income and calculating the cost of childcare – the Pondz user is concerned that motherhood may be beyond her financial means.
“I looked at the cost and everything and thought we could manage … aside from the childcare costs! I make £1,300 a month and my partner brings in £2,000 a month,” she said. written post.
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“The cost to put a child into childcare seems to be around £900-£1,000 and it breaks my heart when I realize we may not have enough money for that.”
“But then if we spend £1,000 of that on childcare that gives us just £350 for the whole month.”
Pondz questioned whether the remaining £350 would be enough – and whether they would have trouble paying for unplanned expenses such as car breakdown or dental visits.
“Spending £1,000 on childcare means we don’t have enough money to save for emergencies,” she added.
The post received a lot of messages from people offering tips and savings tips.
“Start saving now and you’ll be fine!” said one user. “If your total one-time use value is £1,350 then put away £600 a month now as this still leaves you with £750 to enjoy life…”
Another added: “We have the same income (after taxes). It was a struggle, but babysitting was only for a couple of years. My son has turned third and now we are accepting. get free hours of babysitting, which helps a lot (not full time but it helps).
“It’s certainly doable, but consider that you might have to work for basically nothing for the next few years, if you want to keep your career going.”
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