WHEN you’ve just started someone new, we all notice the red signs that tell that story – you know, things like: deviant jokes, constant talking about exes, poor hygiene, etc.
But the butterfly in your belly? We are always asked to explain that as a clear sign to you clearly like this person.
According to trainer Lauren Zoeller, dating isn’t always so obvious.
Share dating tips in one TikTok Videos, the relationship expert says it’s completely normal to feel butterflies before a first or second date.
However after the third time, she claims you should pause and make a purchase.
Lauren asserts: “The experience of flying when you’re with someone after you’ve been dating them for a while is actually a signal from your nervous system that something is wrong in the relationship. “
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Instead, Lauren claims that “real intimacy” with one special person “felt like coming home”.
She continues: “Butterflies can be a sign that the relationship is unsafe or that you need to heal more deeply.
“A little nervousness is normal on the first few dates – but if it’s been going on for a while, it’s time to go!”
Responding to one viewer who suggested that butterflies were “a sign of excitement”, Lauren added: “Yes! At first, however, they can mean an uncontrolled nervous system response in the long run. .”
One person replied: “Yes, I’ve had really bad butterflies and that’s a big warning I’ll never ignore again!”
“Yeah, didn’t know that in my 20s,” another added. “Finished with the guy for almost two years before I broke up.”
However, others argue that three dates is not enough time to really get to know someone.
A third wrote: “Geez three dates for nothing!!! Come on.”
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https://www.thesun.ie/fabulous/8200062/dating-coach-butterflies-red-flag/ I’m a dating coach and feel butterflies can really be a BIG red flag in your relationship