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‘I’m paying £30k for my sister’s wedding – now my step-sister wants to sponsor too’

One man has said he was prepared to part with £30,000 to help finance his sister’s lavish wedding – but now his step-sister is jealous he won’t do the same. with her

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Man is paying £30,000 for his sister’s wedding

If you have a large family, it can be difficult to divide your time and resources equally so that everyone feels equally loved and appreciated – especially if there are members with whom you are closer. the others.

But a man on Reddit caused a stir in his family after he offered to pay a tempting sum for his sister’s wedding, because he refused to do the same to his step-sister. .

Share his story Anonymously, the man said he pledged around £30,000 for his sister to have the wedding of her dreams, but that he would not give a dime to his step-sister – because they are not close and he is not. consider her family.







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And while the man feels justified for his actions, his step-sister is “disgusted” with him and has even spoken to her stepmother – and the man’s biological father. – to try to make him more “generous”.

He wrote: “My sister is getting married soon. I love my sister very much and I know that her wedding will definitely help me to pay for it. That’s what I’ve always wanted to do. I do well for myself. and I love you sister so I also splurged a bit, I decided to commit about 30k for your wedding, my sister didn’t ask this of me, it’s my own personal choice.

“My step-sister moved in with us when I was 16 and she was 9. At 18, I transferred to university. We didn’t have a particularly close relationship during that time. We get close to each other when they meet in the family get together but don’t really have a close relationship.

“My step-sister is also getting married soon and was very sad when she realized I couldn’t contribute anything to her wedding. Now she has asked my father to come talk to me about being generous and frankly not placing him. it’s in a bad position.

“I really don’t want to give money for her wedding because I don’t know her well. What should I do?”

Commenters on the Reddit post were quick to tell the man that he was under no obligation to pay for his stepsister’s wedding, as he could use his money however he chose.

One said: “Just tell her no and stand your ground. It’s weird that she feels entitled to your pay, but not close enough for her to be able to talk to you on her own. that.

While another added: “Tell your dad that traditionally they pay for the wedding, so it’s up to him. Your contribution to the other sister is a big one. large wedding gift that you choose due to your proximity but neither your requirement nor your responsibility.”

And a third wrote: “She just wants to use you as a free wedding trip and misinterprets your generosity towards your sister as a more obligatory gesture.

“Don’t give in to the power trip. You don’t have to explain your position. Just in case your step sister retaliates by not inviting you to her wedding.”

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