One woman was far from impressed after finding out her husband’s friend’s wife keeps coming to her husband’s while he’s away – despite asking her to stop
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When it comes to relationships, it can be difficult not to feel jealous of other people who try to interfere.
A woman claims she was confused and frustrated by the behavior of her husband’s friend’s wife.
In an online post, the unnamed woman is asking others for advice on what to do after finding out the other woman has been trying to meet up with her husband while she’s away – quite shady.
She was so fed up with the woman’s antics that she told the other woman’s husband the truth to get her to stop, hence opening the can of the worms what was going on.
On RedditShe wrote: “My husband’s main residence is in Italy, mine in the UK. On one of my trips to Italy, his housekeeper told me that my husband’s friend’s wife kept trying to visit him while I was away.
“She said she stopped by every day, although most days he wasn’t even home or working from home, so he didn’t even say hello to her.
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“We went out together as a group, so when it was just the two of us I approached her and asked her to stop. I told her that my husband doesn’t like being disturbed while he’s working so she really should arrange something. Instead of just showing up, she waved it off and pretended it wasn’t a big deal.
“I’ve asked her to stop several more times but she did it every minute I was back in the UK.
“I ended up getting so fed up that I contacted her husband and asked him to tell his wife to stop. He didn’t know this was going on and said he would speak to her.
“His wife is angry with me now and claims I’m insinuating things about the kind of woman she is. She also said I would treat her like her husband’s property and I felt pathetic for telling him instead of just admitting that she made me insecure.
“My husband is mostly indifferent but also told me I caused chaos in their friendship group as everyone knows what’s going on and it causes a lot of gossip.”
People were confused as to why her husband hadn’t mentioned it earlier.
One wrote: “Why didn’t your husband tell you? If it wasn’t for the housekeeper, would you still not know? Why didn’t your husband do that? Why did you have to be the one to tell this woman to stop ’til when your husband gets disturbed?”
Some took the incidents very seriously, writing: “Stalking. The term everyone is missing is ‘stalking’. The original poster and husband need to start taking this seriously before it escalates.
“If it was the original poster’s husband showing up at a woman’s house every day You’d better believe it’s being taken seriously.”
“She was actually trying to do something wrong,” one quipped.
“The original poster’s husband should have been the one setting that boundary. He sucks too,” suggested another.
Another wrote: “Although your husband should have been the one to tell her to stop going uninvited, it wasn’t an unreasonable request on your part. You tried to talk to her, she chose not to listen or to respect your request, so she went to her husband for help.
“As far as you’re implying what kind of woman she is… Who shows up EVERY SINGLE DAY to a married man without being invited? For what reason? Any rumors or gossip as to what kind of woman it’s been spread by YOUR actions.”
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