It’s not fair to say that Rebel Wilson is a bad mom for night out, but it says a lot about the way we treat surrogate mothers.

Five days after welcoming their first child, Royce Lillian, via surrogate, Wilson and girlfriend Ramona Agruma celebrated in fashion the launch of Paris Hilton’s virtual world, Paris World.

It is also reported that Wilson and Agruma attended Leonardo Di Caprio’s birthday party in the same week.

In August, Khloe Kardashian stepped out to dinner and attended a jewelry launch event in Los Angeles, looking incredibly glamorous and carefree in the world days after welcoming her son, also through someone replace.

All in all, it didn’t take long for people to take aim at the Kardashians, but Khloe’s decision to stand out and go out has certainly had a lot of vexed commentators.

These two pieces of information are more than enough to make a particularly malicious folk group hot-headed and preoccupied – The Mothers of the Internet.

The answer to both women’s nights out sounded familiar. “Don’t have children if you don’t want to sit in and take care of them,” is a typical response. And another: “You’re a new mom! Get your priority right now!

Sure, these new moms are missing out on a truly magical moment in motherhood. The first week of a baby’s life is weird and stressful, but it’s also beautiful and life-changing. Importantly, it only lasted a few days. And then it disappeared.

In any case, the decision to go to the pub during my first week of motherhood was out of my hands. After the cesarean section, the trip to a nearby park was too much for me to bear. My hormones are bouncing off the wall, which means seeing a shepherd’s pie invited by a neighbor makes me a mess. Physically, I was sent over to ringer.

Am I the mother of a surrogate and holding my baby in my arms for the first time without my body has gone through a tumultuous nine months? What if I became a new mom and wasn’t physically and hormonally affected when they arrived? Will I be in more of a mood to celebrate?

Motherhood effectively shatters your ‘old’ life. How lovely it is to continue, in a small way, as usual. And the idea of ​​spending time with Paris Hilton when you can be with your four-day-old baby is not a decision I’m sure I would make.

But here’s the thing. It is not my decision as I am not Royce Lillian’s parent. In the end, it doesn’t matter whether I agree with Wilson or not. And constantly giving your opinion on how other people’s parents are boring old hats.

I wonder if this “make it right” thing is the kind of immediate response primarily reserved for surrogate mothers. It leads to a very inaccurate and unfair narrative, suggesting that babies are nothing but lifestyle accessories to mothers who cannot or will not carry them in their own bodies.

Besides, it’s not that the women who go out are leaving their newborn babies in the garden, arms crossed that they will still be there. I think we can be sure that Wilson & Co has arranged the best childcare that movie star money can buy. Because that’s what loving, caring, and long-term mothers do.

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