Love is Blind season 3: Netflix reality show exposes dating mistakes in 2022

First, point out that none of the above male or female participants Love is blind would be described as unattractive. You have some very good-looking men and women, but everyone is attractive to some degree. As season 3 participant Bartise Bowden pointed out that fiancee Nancy Rodriguez “has a very important look,” and he’s right, they’re important to some people.

Remember that Bartise is not the only one with this problem. Cole Barnett also made no secret of the fact that he was not as physically attracted to Zanab Jaffrey as he had hoped. The problem with Bartise and Cole isn’t just that they put too much emphasis on looks. Both are quite immature and not ready for marriage commitment – a problem all too common with modern dating whereby people claim or think they are more ready than they actually are.

I also don’t let the women lose interest, because Nancy and Zanab are also responsible for the breakdown of those relationships. Nancy is an intelligent woman and like many women, she lets her heart rule her mind. Even though everything in her gut is screaming “he’s too young” when they go on a group date (she said so in front of the camera), she pulls through, gets engaged, and ignores all the bad news. warning signs, such as Bartise telling her on her face that he doesn’t find her as attractive as participant Raven Ross, or getting those ridiculous perpetual bracelets (expression) perfect image for trying to force an alliance that isn’t right). She is too hungry for marriage and is the most “blind” participant of all.

Zanab has brought so much burden from her past and problems to her relationship that Cole can’t deal with it. Between that and Cole has a rather immature personality – hurling words and insults insensitively, never really considering the emotional consequences of what he says or does – that relationship really a disaster.

Zanab needs therapy to work through her issues – and so does Matt Bolton, who has moved on and is married to Colleen Reed. But from watching him lose his mind because she talks to Cole and hangs out with her friends, it’s clear he’s still working through the trauma from his previous marriage. He will need counseling if he and Colleen are to have a long-term chance.

The other couple, Alexa Alfia and Brennon Lemieux, have a winning formula that is not only about being willing to marry and valuing each other’s personalities over looks (again, that makes them equally attractive), but ready to overcome all difficulties. their problems.