Spice Girl Mel B called for justice system reform at the Conservative Party conference, as she shared her personal experience of domestic abuse.
The pop star, a patron of the charity Women’s Aid, spoke at a side event at the conference in Birmingham, calling for more to be done to support domestic violence survivors. family.
She told the event she was “probably the last person you’d expect to find at a Tory party conference”.
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“I’m not here because I’m Mel B, Scary Spice from the Spice Girls, I’m here because I’m Melanie Brown MBE,” she added.
She told the audience in a packed conference room that she had been in an abusive relationship for about 10 years, but “keeps it a complete secret”.
“I’ve toured with the Spice Girls, I’m a judge on America’s Got Talent – voted best judge, if you can be voted best judge on a TV show,” she said. speak.
The Leeds-born singer added: “I put on a smile for the camera because it’s my job and I know I’m really good too.”
She said the abuse was getting worse “bit by bit”, leaving her without money or a support network, and gradually leading her to suicidal thoughts.
“I can’t pick up the phone to call my mom, my friends, I don’t have access to anything, and you think, well, the Spice Girls are all about girl power, but let I tell you, when these abusers get them hooked on you, there’s really no way out – so you think,” she said.
Only after her father’s death did she say she found the strength to leave the relationship, after seven previous attempts.
She called on the Government to do more to raise awareness of the needs of victims of domestic abuse, including better support through the health service and the court system.
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Mel B said: “Every judge I’ve ever met looks absolutely terrified like, ‘Well, you look at the whole thing, you look fine, what’s wrong with you?’
She emphasized that women from all walks of life can be abused, no matter how they appear on the outside. You can come from a council estate, which I am, or you can come from a country estate – which I am now. “
Farah Nazeer, executive director of Women’s Aid, said the justice system was “the hardest institution to get into” in need of reform.
“The stories you hear about women who say that it is actually more painful than the abuse itself, that is often the experience, and it is not the experience for the place that is supposed to keep you safe,” she said. and find justice for you”.
Home Affairs Minister Mims Davies said the Government was trying to encourage “a whole range of social attitudes to change”, including teaching men and boys to recognize abuse.
The newly appointed minister told the side event: “As Minister of Defense, I have a pretty large inbox and this is absolutely one of the important ones.
“Say no to leniency on this. This is a crime in the house. It’s about time we really pushed and helped women move on from this, and there was no chance for everyone to find tolerance in the end.”
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