A social media mother has sparked a heated debate online after claiming that mothers who can breastfeed but choose not to breastfeed are ‘lazy’ – and even one The nurse stepped in.
Image: Getty Images)
It’s a pretty personal question, and unfortunately, depending on who’s asking, it’s a question that can come with a lot of judgment.
However, many moms will tell you, what are you up to in the process pregnancy It doesn’t always happen, and unfortunately, many mothers find that for one reason or another, they are unable to breastfeed after the baby is born.
One mother recently sparked a fierce debate on the topic, when she controversially suggested that non-breastfeeding mothers are “lazy”, and understandably a lot of people have expressed annoyed by these comments.
For more news you care about, straight to your inbox, sign up for one of our daily newsletters this.
Mum and TikToker Carlee Gamble ( @ carlgamble01 ) started the heated conversation, when she said that people should “quit telling mom that feeding is best. I’m sorry, it’s NOT.”
She continued: “We’re not comparing feeding your baby with not feeding your baby. We’re picking out what’s best for breastfeeding your baby,” she said before the comparison. formula milk with feeding your baby candy.
“You wouldn’t compare feeding kids candy and chocolate to giving them vegetables and saying ‘oh okay, I feed them’.
“Like it. And I get it, some people can’t legally breastfeed and if your body really has a problem that’s okay. But most moms are just lazy or say it’s’ too hard’ for them.”
In the comments section, a nurse, who works in the neonatal intensive care unit, was quick to comment explaining how harmful it was to make these comments.
“Love inviting you to WITNESS what happens when moms listen to people like you,” the nurse wrote.
Another pointed out: “Your comparisons aren’t equivalent. Candy vs veggies? No. The right comparison would be organic apples and regular apples. Both are healthy.”
“Bottle-feeding isn’t lazy. It’s more of a way of doing things. I have no choice but to do my second. I hate bottle-feeding. ‘Eating is best’ includes fact. that whatever you do will benefit the baby,” wrote another mother.
Current NHS advocates advise that mothers, fathers and carers should choose the feeding method that works best for them, to enable them to give the best possible care for their baby, whether it is breastfeeding, bottle feeding or a combination of both.
In a follow-up video, Carlee went on to explain that the reason behind her frustration was that people told her she was “lucky” to be able to breastfeed when, in fact, she wasn’t. worked very hard to be able to breastfeed.
“I don’t speak to mothers who cannot breastfeed, I do not speak to mothers who cannot get a supply for whatever reason, I do not speak to mothers who are exhausted,” she explains.
“I’m just saying specifically if you choose not to breastfeed because of how your breasts look or for cosmetic reasons or you don’t want to wake up in the middle of the night with them for me and in my opinion, that’s the thing. That’s selfish.”
Carlee concluded by saying that she feels the need to give more support to women who really want to breastfeed, rather than hospital quickly provide formula as soon as the mother shows difficulty.
“Any reason a woman chooses not to breastfeed is a valid reason. End of conversation,” pointed out one TikToker, while another added: “Fed is the best. Do it.” Mothering doesn’t mean you have to sacrifice yourself. That’s how mothers end their lives.”
Got a story to share? We want to hear all about it. Email us at firstname.lastname@example.org
https://www.mirror.co.uk/lifestyle/family/mum-sparks-breastfeeding-debate-over-26365853 Mom sparks breastfeeding debate because of 'laziness' - but nurses don't have any of that