My daughter is pregnant at 19 and I’m destroyed, she’s selfish and lazy, I don’t want to be woken up by a screaming child

A DIE mother has shared her disappointment after finding out her daughter was pregnant.

37-year-old soon-to-be-married grandmother shared the above story Mumsnet, she explained that she felt like she had just regained her freedom after having a daughter at the age of 18.

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According to her desperate mother, she has no cash and can only live – in order to keep the roof for herself and her 19-year-old daughter, she has had to rent out her bedroom and Sleeping. on the sofa for more than a year.

Her daughter, who she describes as ”lazy” and ”unhelpful in apartments”, recently announced that she is six weeks pregnant.

”I’m so devastated because I had her when I was 18 and to say it was a struggle is an understatement. ”

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”She wants to keep the baby but where are we going to put it!?

”She wants to stay home for the first few months and I don’t want her to have to leave but what are we going to do when we don’t have the space where we live!? ”

” It makes me feel so s**t, like I’ve become an old lady and mother. ”

The mother then explained that since she works full time, she doesn’t ”want to stay up all night with a screaming child”.

” I never had more children because it was so painful for me to be a young, single, lonely mother.

“I was so upset she wanted nothing more to do with her life, I never wanted her to make the same mistakes I did and I feel like I failed her,” she wrote.

” I kept asking if she was using birth control to which I was told “yes, I’ll arrange it” I should have put it up. ”

The 37-year-old also revealed that her mother passed away a week ago and she feels ”particularly overwhelmed” with the recent news and doesn’t know what to do.

All readers seem to have sided with her, with one post: ”You know you Yes Let her and the baby live with you?

”It may not be the easiest thing but she is not yet 15, 19 years old and capable of taking care of herself.

“I had my first time at 19, I moved out of the house and I moved on with it,” she explains.

Another agreed, commenting: ”I was 17 years pregnant and really didn’t know what to do.

” My mother though made it clear that living with her would not be an option (not a cruel one) and that I should consider help, support and benefits – of which nearly like for 20 years. formerly.

She also made it clear that abortion was the right choice and gently encouraged me towards it.

” I terminated the contract and have not once regretted it. ”

Another suggested: ”Sit down and explain that she needs to start her apartment hunt now, she’s going to need a job and a babysitter and it won’t be you. . ”

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