DEAR DEIDRE: My girlfriend dumped me because she had too many of my Star Wars obsessions.
My apartment is covered with movie posters and memorabilia and my bed linen is all Star Wars themed.
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But my request that she dress up as Princess Leia and act in different scenes in the movies really made me unable to take my eyes off her.
I’m 47 and my ex 41. At first, she thought it was fun and dressing up, but after a few months she hinted that she was feeling bored.
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When I admitted that all of my girlfriends had dressed me – some of the same outfits – she blew it up and told me she’d had enough.
Now I worry that I will never meet anyone who will share my sexual preferences.
DEIDRE SAYS: Any relationship is a give and take, and it looks like your recent relationships have been one-way.
Instead of focusing exclusively on what you’re looking for sexually, take the time to get to know your partner’s tastes and what excites them.
They’ll be more likely to love your hobbies if they feel you’re making an effort for them too.
I am sending you my support package called Fetish Worries, it will be helpful.
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