“My husband has a history of cheating, wild bachelor parties and one night stands – can I trust him?” – Coleen Nolan

Mirror Torment Aunt Coleen Nolan has been contacted by a woman who’s worried her new partner’s colorful love story won’t come back to bite her

The woman's partner once cheated on an ex-girlfriend with her cousin
The woman’s partner once cheated on an ex-girlfriend with her cousin

I’ve been with my partner for a few years and we have a daughter together, but we’re not married.

I was previously married to a guy just two years ago who basically cheated on me with the same person throughout our marriage – she even attended our wedding and I found out later that he even texted her on our honeymoon.

So, of course I’m cautious about marriage again, because I only associate it with crushing humiliation.

Back to my current relationship. My partner and I went to our friend’s wedding a few weeks ago and when everyone was drunk, it turned out that my partner has a very rich history with women. That’s putting it mildly.

There have been many stories of his antics, from his girlfriend cheating on her cousin to wild bachelor parties and one night stands. I was horrified as I didn’t know anything about this stuff.

Now I’m wondering if he will go back to type and if I can trust him. I also worry that I have a habit of choosing the wrong men!

I love him and he’s been great to me – he’s an amazing dad too – but the doubts bite me. What do you think?

Coleen says

Mirror torment aunt Coleen Nolan gave her verdict

Why should you know this stuff? It sounds like it was a long time ago you guys got together and he was a lot younger.

Even when dating a partner of a certain age, most people have a story or two to tell! But the most important thing is, it’s in the past and he never gave you a reason to doubt him.

I truly believe that you have to trust a person until they let you down.

I think what’s going on here is that you’re traumatized by what happened to your ex-husband, which is no surprise.

It sounds awful and you did well to get away from it and live a happy life for yourself. But don’t let this relationship spoil this one.

Your partner is not your ex. Of course, the things that happen to us in relationships affect how we behave in later relationships, but the most important thing is to be aware of that.

Try to figure out how much your anxiety has to do with your partner and how much of it has to do with what’s happening in your own life.

Talk to him about it, but don’t let suspicion and paranoia overwhelm you and ruin what you have.

Much luck.

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