Entertainment

My lover, 72 years old, wants to be with me but his wife is showing signs of memory loss

DEAR DEIDRE: Until my wife started showing signs of amnesia, my lover was going to divorce me to be with me.

I’ve been seeing this man, someone I’ve known since I was a teenager, for almost a year.

If he leaves his wife to be with me his family will not forgive him

first

If he leaves his wife to be with me his family will not forgive him

For more advice from Dear Deidre

No problem is too small, too big or too embarrassing. Read our personal answer here.

  • Dear Deidre on Mental Health
  • Dear Deidre on Identity
  • Dear Deidre on Debt and Money
  • Send Deidre on Work
  • Dear Deidre of health and happiness
  • Dear Deidre on Addiction

He lives an hour’s drive away but we spend our days hanging out together and sometimes having evenings together. We are both 72.

I was widowed 5 years ago. I’m often asked by men, but I don’t have the same connection with them as with him.

His wife stays at home all the time and doesn’t go out in the garden. He became her caretaker but he was hopelessly unhappy.

He worries that if he leaves his wife to be with me, his family won’t forgive him and he won’t see his grandchildren.

Contact Deidre

All issues receive a personal response, usually within 24 hours on weekdays.

Even though he doesn’t have a marriage to talk about, it still doesn’t feel right to me.

Should I end this relationship, even though both of us are heartbroken?

DEIDRE SAYS: Capturing distant moments won’t help you figure out if you have a future.

Right now, you’re giving him everything on the plate.

He has his family life and his secret love affair. He is managing to keep the two completely separate.

I’m sending you your Lover support package Not free? This will help you protect yourself and figure out what’s best for both of you.

I know it’s painful but it’s best to accept he won’t be yours anymore and focus your attention on finding someone new. . . who is available.

NEXT IN Greetings TODAY Boy, 11, is behaving like a screaming toddler and doesn’t cope well at school

READ DEIDRE’s STORY Sadie wonders what Lily is plotting behind her back

CONTACT How the site works and how to contact us

https://www.thesun.ie/dear-deidre/8179340/lover-affair-wife-dementia-cheat/ My lover, 72 years old, wants to be with me but his wife is showing signs of memory loss

Fry Electronics Team

Fry Electronics.com is an automatic aggregator of the all world’s media. In each content, the hyperlink to the primary source is specified. All trademarks belong to their rightful owners, all materials to their authors. If you are the owner of the content and do not want us to publish your materials, please contact us by email – admin@fry-electronics.com. The content will be deleted within 24 hours.

Related Articles

Back to top button