A grandmother has been criticized online after alleging her son lied about giving birth because she tried so hard to throw a welcome party right after they left the hospital.
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The womenwho is being criticized online, had wanted to throw a welcome party at home for her granddaughter, but was gutted when her daughter-in-law said she just wanted to be home alone for a few weeks with she Baby before introducing him to his family.
“When my daughter-in-law pregnant, I suggested that I organize a welcome party for my nephew as soon as he was discharged from the hospital. I arranged and even had a room available for them to stay but somehow she objected and said she would rather spend the first few weeks at home with her new baby,” the woman said. Reddit’s AITA Forum.
“Not only that, she said no to the welcome party. My husband and I talked to our son and he said ‘we’ll see.'”
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However, a few days ago, the couple discovered that their daughter-in-law actually gave birth 2 weeks ago, but decided not to tell anyone so that the couple could have time to live separately.
“My nephew told me and I immediately phoned my son to confirm it. He and his wife lied and then hid the date of birth from the family. I told him this was unacceptable. received, lied just because they don’t want a welcome party and She continues to love and support from family.
“I told him I was very disappointed he ruined our welcome for my nephew and I invited family members too and they were all disappointed.”
The woman’s son told her it was a “last resort” after she repeatedly pushed him and his wife to feel uncomfortable about hosting a welcome party.
“We had an argument and he ended the call saying I ruined his fun with his newborn. He is now threatening to block my nephew because but I think my grandson was decent enough to inform the family, God knows how long my son and his wife will hide their son just to keep us in the ring. hand,” she wrote.
“We’ve always been kind and welcoming to our daughter-in-law and her family, I don’t understand why she’s doing this and being so disrespectful to her family. On the other hand, some family members see it as being rude. act justly. because we insisted on joining the party.”
The woman turned to Reddit to ask if she was a bad guy in the situation, and to her surprise, other Reddit users unanimously agreed that she was on the sidelines.
One person wrote: “Welcome party is a nice way of saying ‘expose a newborn baby to all sorts of illnesses during a pandemic.’ You have NO right to put this child in danger.”
“This article is psychotic. What does a teenage mother want to come home from the hospital and be immediately thrown into a party with her husband’s parents???” other is added.
“You need to relax or else you’ll be posting here in a few months asking why your son hasn’t contacted you.”
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