A man has been left in a dilemma after his wife kicked his parents out for planning to leave the country, leaving them unprotected.
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A man and his wife found myself in a more uncomfortable line take care of children, after learning that his parents had been planning to emigrate for three years, leaving them without a babysitter. They have three children between the ages of two and eight and rely heavily on help from his parents as she has lived abroad.
“Mine parents I love being a grandparent but I’m really busy. My mother is currently the president of a yarn arts association in her local area and travels a lot to attend performances, conferences, and visit other associations in their national network. She has also flown around and asked to teach classes even internationally and has received diplomas from embroiderers for the Queen of England (literally),” he wrote on Reddit’s AITA Forum.
“Growing up, my mother was a stay-at-home mom but after we grew up she really got involved in her craft and my dad, who is retired, was very supportive and accompanied her to these conferences and was her campaign manager.” when she became president. His excuse is that she has supported his cause all these years so now it’s his turn to take on a supporting role so he travels with her and jokes that he’s a letter now. her signature.”
The man’s mother recently announced that she wants to earn a Bachelor’s degree related to her crafts, with the only course in her field being taught in the UK, while they live elsewhere. other in Europe. With that in mind, his mom and dad plan to move to London in three years, while she earns her degree, using the money they get from downsizing their family home.
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“My siblings and I are a bit disappointed that we won’t have much of our parents around, but we also understand how hard it was for mom to raise us and how much she loves her craft. “, he continued.
The problem, however, is that he and his wife rely on his parents to take care of the children while they are present, as his wife’s parents live in another country, so are not involved as much as they would like. . Meanwhile, the children of his siblings have another set of grandparents that are beautiful.
“My wife feels it’s not fair that my parents move to London like this when our kids are young and need their grandparents the most for a degree she doesn’t need, and my parents are just doing it. spend all the money they got from the sale of our family home,” he continued.
“She expressed this to my mother last Saturday over dinner and my mother is currently traumatized and wavering about her decision. My siblings are very angry with my wife and us. skipped dinner because my wife basically said she has no say in this because it’s not her mom and she’s not family.
“I think it’s a difficult thing to say to my wife, but I also think our problems shouldn’t be the factor in my mother’s pursuit of her dreams. Basically, my wife told her to become a mother. Being a grandmother was the most important thing in her life.” “
Now, the man’s wife is angry with him for not supporting her when his siblings tell her to leave and agree that his parents should go to London, even though it would make Their life is more difficult.
“Your wife really has rights. Grandparents are great if they can take care of the kids, but they shouldn’t feel guilty about enjoying their own lives. Babysitting is the responsibility of you and your wife, not the father. your mom,” commented one Reddit user. “Your mom deserves to do what makes her happy without the guilt.”
Another concurred: “Your wife has no say in this. Neither does your wife or your siblings. Your mother chooses. Children don’t need ‘grandparents’. Grandparents are Your wife is just crazy about losing access to all the free babysitting services.”
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https://www.mirror.co.uk/lifestyle/family/my-wife-just-expects-free-26350963 'My wife just wants my parents to take care of their children for free - they have their own lives'