DEAR DEIDRE: I’m a really suitable woman that I’ve dated and I really like her.
I cooked her a delicious meal – my side dish, beef and ale with mashed potatoes and we drank a few glasses of wine.
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I’m 26 and she’s 27. Everything went great and we had a great sex but then she ruined it all by going to the bathroom in front of me while I was brushing my teeth.
I know we just had sex but all the mystery was ruined for me when she let it happen right there and then.
Then she decided it was okay to borrow my toothbrush.
The next morning, I was on the loo and she barged in.
When I asked her to leave, she told me to stop being silly and move on.
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My friends think I’m ridiculous but I really don’t think I’d want another date – not if she kept slamming me in the room.
Maybe I’m too old-fashioned. Do you think I’m being silly?
DEIDRE SAYS: If you really liked this woman before discovering her comfortable attitude to privacy, you should explain to her that you have a different approach and ask her if she respects her. Your thoughts do not.
If she protests again, you’ve got your answer – you’d better move on.
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