More than a third would turn their children’s old bedroom into something else, like a home office or gym – but nine in ten would let their children move in at any time
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Empty nesters want their laundry piles down – before food bills are lower and there’s a tidy home.
The poll of 1,000 parents over the age of 45 who have had at least one runaway child found that 65% look forward to the day their child finally leaves.
Although 78% of 55 to 64 year olds are sad when their last child moves out.
Lower energy bills, having to cook for only one or two people and not having to pick up dirty dishes from rooms around the house are also on the list.
It also emerged that 38% had converted their children’s old room into another room – with 45% of them, the guest bedroom was the top choice.
Almost one in five (17%) have converted this space into a home office, while more than one in twenty (6%) choose as a dressing room.
Other uses for their kids’ old room include art studios, home gyms, and even bars.
And one in ten (12%) explained all the “mess” their children had left behind.
A spokesman for Key Later Life Finance, which commissioned the study, said: “While your child’s flight back to the nest can be an emotional time, it also provides an opportunity to start enjoying it. things in life that you may have had to let go of.
“It could be a key – but with more financial freedom, less responsibilities and more time to devote to your own interests, it could mean the beginning of a new one. something new.
“But, as many parents of runaway children know all too well, just because your kids don’t live under the same roof doesn’t mean they won’t need a little financial help from time to time.”
The study also found that more than one in ten people who don’t have an empty home (15 per cent) wish to take exotic vacations without kids, while one in five would rather have extra disposable income to spend. .
But 82% of adults, 45-54 years old with children who have moved out, find some or all of their children still living 20 miles away.
It also appears that nearly a fifth of that age group have decreased in size since finding their nests empty, but 56 percent have not – nor are they planning to.
Nearly a third of parents (32%), aged 65-74, feel their relationships with their children have improved since they moved out of the family home.
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But despite the positives, 61% will feel “very sad” when their last child moves out.
Although 69% of those aged 65-74 admit their children moving out gives them a freedom they haven’t had in years.
But 88% will have an “open door” policy for kids to come back any time they want, according to OnePoll figures.
Six in ten won’t even change their children’s room, in case they need to return to the family home.
A spokesperson for Key Later Life Finance added: “Many parents will find their children moving back in – and often leaving the house afterwards.
“It can be a tough world out there, no matter what your age. So parents with adult children will want to make sure they are stable from a financial perspective.
“It’s a balancing act, especially given that many parents also want to enjoy their new-found freedoms.
“There are many ways to do this, one of them is equity issuance – this can be really helpful for people who have been in their home for a long time. ”
25 BEST THINGS ABOUT CHILDREN MOVING OUTSIDE:
- Wash less
- Reduced food bills
- Know that the house will be as tidy as when you left it
- Reduced energy bills
- No need to clean up after them
- Cook for two or one person only
- Generally more spontaneous
- No need to go around the house to collect cups, mugs and plates
- You can eat whatever you want for dinner
- Have disposable income
- Turn your bedroom into another space
- Not being woken up in the middle of the night when they get home
- Can rest more
- Don’t get them from other places
- Go on exotic vacations – without the kids
- Get rid of the clutter
- No need to wait in line to shower
- Don’t have to spend weekends for them to participate in activities
- It is possible to lie in
- Go to a nice restaurant
- Upgrade house
- Avoid heating war
- May there be “good things” again
- Garden landscape
- Get all their stuff out of the garage
https://www.mirror.co.uk/lifestyle/family/parents-look-forward-kids-moving-26426634 Two-thirds of parents expect their children to move out - so they have a tidy home